前幾天和朋友約吃飯,位置坐定後,
朋友問到:「啊你沒出國,最近在幹嘛?」
我笑笑地回答:「我喔,在設計我的人生啊!」
朋友問:「設計人生…在幹嘛?」
事情是這樣的,上學期,我在台大修了一門「設計你的人生」課程,花了1學期,18週,將近100小時在思考人生,究竟這堂台大生搶著上的課在幹嘛,我又學到什麼,今天用文字記錄下來。

人生一直變為什麼要設計
這是很多人在聽到設計人生會有的疑惑,
我同意人生會一直改變,但我認為就好比旅遊和創業:
旅遊前,我們會規劃旅程;
創業前,我們會寫商業計畫書。
理由很簡單:降低風險,提高喜歡or成功機率。
旅遊、創業可以設計,
我相信,範圍更大更重要的人生, 可以也應該被設計。
那該如何設計
想像一下你今天是一位設計師,要為案主設計一款客製化椅子,你會如何達成?
是我的話,我會去訪談案主、試著找出案主需求,接著可能會發想幾款方案、實際測試一下,然後不斷調整設計,直到案主滿意這款椅子。
將上述例子套回到我們的人生,把案主想成自己,客製化椅子就是我們的人生,該如何設計出自己滿意的人生?
我們一樣可以
訪談案主:同理自己處境,進行自我覺察
找出需求:定義什麼是我喜歡的人生
發想方案:發想未來五年規劃的不同可能性
實際測試:進行行動,測試自己是否滿意發想的人生
這樣的課程,其實都緊扣著設計思考(Design Thinking)的流程:同理、定義、發想、原型、測試,跑完5項元素,就是一次設計人生的流程。
課程上越久,我發現我們在做的,其實與普遍的問題解決流程有異曲同工之妙,簡單來說就是:蒐集資訊=>定義問題=>發想解方=>實際行動。
只是今天的問題,換成了自我的人生課題,一切的答案無法從他人身上找到,而必須向內探索,自己給出人生的解答,而這,是很多台灣學生不習慣 的事情。
人生的答案由自己定義
所以我找到喜歡的人生了嗎
恩…我會說Yes and No。
我原先以為在課程結束後,我會超愛我接下來的人生規劃,但上完課後,我的人生並沒有什麼很劇烈的改變,那時我才意識到,過去我總在追求一個人生的終極答案,我渴望馬上,就能說出:「對,我這一生就是要做這個!」然後一頭栽進去,不再迷茫。
但,其實那個答案並不存在。
或許人生就是這樣,我們都在有限的資訊下,尋求暫時的最佳解,無論再怎麼自我覺察,擁有的資訊都依然有限,因此得出來的解方,都僅是當下依據現有條件,可以做出的暫時最佳解。
我們都在有限的資訊下,尋求暫時的最佳解
所以,我找到我喜歡的人生了嗎?
我的回答是,在設計人生的當下,我找到了我暫時喜歡的人生,但下一秒會不會繼續喜歡下去,我不知道,因為,我是人,我只能活在當下。
我是人,我只能活在當下
後記
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